Relationships and Spirituality.
Not every relationship problem is physical and not every relationship problem is spiritual. The moment you agreed to stay with someone’s son or daughter till eternity whether good or bad, then you must be able to fight and withstand whatever principalities that comes with it. Terrible habits, bad home training, ancestral traces of spirituality, family stool rituals, previous disappointments, curses and tokens of promises are all factors that enter marriages when two families decide to connect.
There was a time when your partner was all good and had everything you wish in him other for your comfort and happiness in your relationship or marriage. After some time, things started getting worse. It may be because of physical and mental changes in the person or spiritual changes. The physical change is where maybe by nature, such a partner isn’t no more interested in you by appearance or looks or by emotional and sexual terms. How you appear now in physical and affection or sexual terms to the person has changed due to maybe the interest of the person.
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There are people that by nature, they feel to be with different people and seek varieties either sexually or emotionally ways and also financially. Have you checked your character and what you’ve stopped doing sometime ago? Is that also a factor? Did you ask your partner what you did wrong that’s constituting such changes in your marriage or relationship? What do they want that you ain’t giving to them? Why can’t they open up to you so you become aware of these challenges and how to clear them?
Spiritual Part of Relationship
The spiritual part of such relationship or marriage problems may be because of your partner’s spiritual lifestyle and past interactions. The human soul is a great factor in relationships or marriages. What you feel for someone is the greater part of the spice that binds people together. All other hints such as money, sex, time, attention, emotion and care, also relies on the human soul and spirit or what it’s called the inward factor. Your partner used to be a sex worker and as such, has interacted with different males or females of different spiritual backgrounds and purposes. Having sexual affairs with spiritualists and or occultists disturbs your soul and spiritual state in a relationship.
Consequences of Promises In Relationship
You or your partner ever made a deep promise to someone about dating or marriage sometime ago and later you ended that relationship thinking that it’s normal? What if that partner took that vow seriously and decided to work on it spiritually to maintain whatever promise you gave to him or her? How about their parents? Have you ever promised them of marrying their son or daughter and you later decided not to again? Have you also treated your past relationship partner in such a very good way such that they wished you stay forever with them? Have you ver treated someone so terrible and bad in a relationship such that you caused them deep pains and they also decided not to set you free so no matter what and whoever you stay with in a relationship, things won’t be okay and the relationship will keep crumbling?
Seeking Counseling From Any Religious Or Spiritual Person
Have you ever taken a moment to find out into your soul and spiritual life to check what’s wrong? Ever consulted a pastor or spiritualist? What kind of counseling and process did they pass you through? There are most places that you go seeking for solutions to your problems and then you come back home with more problems. The spiritual oil, soap and creams you see on social media which you buy from acclaimed spiritualists, do you know if your soul or spirit likes such products or you’re just using them thinking you’re solving your spiritual problems? Do you think using such things will change the mental state of your partner and make things go in the relationship or the marriage the way you want it? What price do you have to pay in return for buying that product from that spiritualist and using it?
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Must You Have Sex With Anyone You Meet?
Don’t be having sex with anybody anyhow. Dont be making promises to people anyhow. Dont be taking spiritual threats from people for granted. Don’t just be buying anything from anybody who calls himself or herself a spiritualist and be using it without knowing the kind of force and spirit that person is using for their business and spiritual journey. It’s not anything that you must say to people or not anywhere that you must go, drink, smoke or party.
Spiritual and Soul Interactions Among People
Per experience, spiritual and soul interactions with people, a lot goes on in the lives of people spiritually which they aren’t aware of it till it is brought to their notice. That pastor or spiritualist is just doing his busines and as such, will sell any products to you thinking they’ll solve your problems also. If your problems are physical, then you know the best technician to resort to.
If your problems are spiritual, then find the ancestral way and try to know what your soul is disturbed about and what’s causing whatever setbacks in your life and relations and what path to take to please your spirit or soul and walk on that path. You deserve peace, stability, love, care, happiness and all the positive energies in life. All these depends on you and the kind of choices you make coupled with sensible or foolish plans.
Marriages or relationships are meant to bring people together for a good and a happy cause, not to cripple people into pain and abject suffering. Find out whatever is disturbing your business, plans, relationship, mind, love life and any other thing you seek and wished for. You my think the world, nature and the ancestors are against you but it’s not like that at all.
Everything lies in your will power both physically and spiritually. Find your path and walk on it and please your soul in your lite activities. lf you think you can live life anyhow uselessly, life will also treat you anyhow and uselessly.
Cc: Odehe Kojo
