Life is a replica of school. The easiest subject is mostly failed by most students. This is because those subjects are given less attention than those known to be very difficult to pass. Life walks the same path. Therefore, if you hope to find life on a flat path, you’ll probably be getting into a very deep pit filled with failures, hardship and disappointments. You will end up blaming others for what you couldn’t do.
Life works best how you understand it. If your understanding goes well with it, then good for you, but if you find a dream of getting it easy, then ‘wahala'(problem) for you.
In any way, life is never meant to be easy. Even though there are circumstances that could twist fates but in most cases, never expect to get life on a silver platter. It takes persistent and effortless shaping to get it into shape. We just also understand that life could be changing and revolving. It is full of ups and downs that are only meant to keep your head up for the real deal. If you see not straight and careful, you end up in the street thinking why life’s si mean and unfair to you.
How To Find Easy Way To Life
All that said, is there a way to find easy life? 😂I’m sorry, the easiest way to find a better and honest life is rough, tough, competitive and recurring. It takes a real man to get along this journey. The weak are always left to dazzle and confuse how things work out on this street. Many are left to wander and think thoroughly wondering how this works. Most people expect magic to happen in their lives. They always expect things to work out just as they want it to without thinking that ‘failure‘ do exist. Never in this life lookout for the easiest way to make it in life or get something speedily in life. This is one of the major causes of greediness, selfishness and the rush to make money among peers. It’s bad energy.
Along this path, we meet a lot of people who also play roles in finding our true selves and purpose. Here, we play by the rules of the game. If you intend to cheat, you end up on the wrong side of the game; you’ve got to start up again, and that’s messy.
So literarily, the easiest way to find the smoothest life is by not trying to find the easiest way. Yes, you read that right.
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You should quit making unnecessary comparisons. You can’t be someone and someone can’t be you. You can’t be successful the way someone became successful and someone can’t be successful the way you became successful. We’ve all got a different way of making our magic happen. When you put all your eyes on someone else’s life experiences to build yours, there’s a higher chance you’ll fail. If it worked for someone doesn’t mean it will work for you. You’ve got to understand that key.
The Pain Ahead Success
Life is not a smooth sailing ship. Along the line, you’ve got to feel the pain and stretches. You will feel worthless, rejected, disappointed, loss, uncertainty and failure. All these unfortunate incidents are indeed part of the plan to strengthen you for the future. Trust me, you don’t deserve it for a second. But you must get it. It’s just part of the bond you signed with ‘life’. If you can endure the pain and strive through it, success will be yours. You will live to tell your story, inspire people the same way you inspired yourself and live your dream life.
The 14 Rules To Easy Life – Not Easy Enough.
- Don’t be under any form of pressure.
- Don’t be wrongfully diverted from your dream.
- Stick to the plan you started with.
- Never allow anyone to change your plan, helping you make adjustments is ok.
- Always know that; nothing is easy and the easiest way is mostly the unluckiest way.
- Everyone has a different life; lookout for yours and DON’T COPY SOMEONE.
- You are the master controller of what happens in your life.
- Know that, you are bound to fail. That’s ok. Make corrections and get your hopes up.
- Reduce taking motivation from successful people (You probably don’t know how easy, challenging or fortunate they were during their reign).
- Find someone who inspires you (it could be yourself though)
- No one can make you successful but yourself.
- No matter how helpful and supportive someone is, they won’t be there forever. People change
- The storm could be messy, be ready to walk the storms.
- Never give up, no matter what.
End Part
Constant failure is nothing but a drawback of most uncertain behaviours people put up. Failure is a sign that at least you tried. The lessons within failure are huge enough to make you feel ok. Keep trying no matter how discouraged you get. People will take you for granted. They’ll degrade you and spill negativity into your life. To listen or not to listen to them, is up to you.
What you believe in today, will surely affect your life tomorrow. Who you listen to today, will surely affect your life tomorrow. Be who you can become and believe in your spirit. Forget about what others will say; they also failed before. The part of their story they’ll never tell you. Everyone was once a failure. Consistent failure surely leads to success. Don’t Stop. You’ll Make It.
NOTE: There’s no easy way to find an easy life. It’s all up to you.
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Poet Nazir is a writer and an editor here on ThePoetsHub. Outside this space, he works as a poet, screenwriter, author, relationship adviser and a reader. He is also the founder & lead director of PNSP Studios, a film production firm.
