It is strange to find out that, most relationships end up so bad because of some petty mistakes either of the partners make. With these Facts & Guides, some unnoticeable and unintentional mistakes would be corrected. Check them out.
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RANDOM HACKS – GUIDES
1. When you love someone, the best thing to do is to tell them how you feel. Letting your brain think too much about them could be injurious to your happiness. It could be distressing, depressing and worrying to your daily endeavors.
2. When getting your first kiss, it is better to get it on your lip than on your forehead or your cheek.
3. S*x can make you fall deeply with a person. Be careful who you have s*x with most especially a person whom you are not in love with.
4. Loving someone you don’t want to love can never be a mistake. You either try to develop the feeling for him or her or you try all possible means to get over it.
5. When you fall in love with someone’s boyfriend or girlfriend, the best remedy to this is by getting yours.
6. To avoid being used by someone, never be dependent on their possessions. It’s either you’ve got your own money or never ask anything above your means.
7. When you find yourself in a toxic relationship, the worst thing to do is hoping they will change. The best thing to do is, leave.
8. Kissing can only get much interesting if both kissers are really ready to do it. If not, none of them would ever enjoy the taste kissing serves.
9. You should not forcefully or persuasively get your boyfriend or girlfriend to like what you like of they appear to not like them. You must respect their personal interests and differences.
10. If you’re on the move to propose to a lady or a guy, think of the possibilities that; he or she might say NO. Don’t have high hopes or else you might feel disappointed. Disappointment kills interest, remember.
11. It absolutely not your boyfriend’s responsibility to take care of your needs, it is supposed to be a personal decision. Likewise it is not a must to be given s*x, s*x should also be a personal decision.
12. When you want someone to marry you, the best thing to do is behave like a married person.
13. Don’t force yourself to suit the kind of woman or guy someone wants. If you’re ok with that, fine. If not, never do that. They will love you for who you are if indeed their admiration is pure.
14. If your boyfriend or girlfriend hates your dressing or anything you wear or do, change to their preference if you can. If not, try to make them understand your choices in life. If they don’t, you might want to rethink about the relationship.
15. When you’re on the verge of having intimacy with your lover one, switch off the lights. Most best s*x experiences happen when couples do not have a chance to look at their partner’s faces. That is for newbies or love with maximum respect. Also, s*x can be really fun and fanciful if the lights are turned on. But if your partner is shy, turn the lights off.
16. To easily forget about someone who’ve broken up with you, delete their number, pictures, videos and anything that might make you miss them at a glance.
17. Do not tell your partner everything about you. The future won’t have anything to talk about. Instead, unfold the stories day by day.
18. When trying to solve a misunderstanding with an angry partner, it is advisable not to be happily active in front of that person. It would appear that, you are very much okay without him or her or you aren’t bothered for everything that had caused the mishap.
19. The person who loves you will make it easy for you to get access to his or her love. Making things complicated for someone to know if his or love is true or not is factually not the best way know if someone really loves you nor not. Because someone can swim through hell to prove his worth only to start to mess up after a YES. The best love comes from within. You just need to be sure.
20. If you’re suspected to be cheating, or caught cheating, the best thing to do is to admit. Admitting could cause your relationship big time but lies cannot save it either.
21. Don’t repeat or bring up a topic for discussion of you know your partner hates it.
22. If you want an honest response to a proposal, meet that person face-to-face.
23.When you want to surprise your boyfriend or girlfriend, use flowers, chocolates or wrap up something you wrote yourself. That’s the real romance.
24. Do not act like, your girlfriend or boyfriend is the most important person in your life. People are humans.
25. When you get too excited for something your partner does for you, neve forget that, a day will come when he or she wouldn’t be able to provide. You’ve got to understand.
26. Never think that ‘Someone will be there for you anytime’.
27. The more beautiful and attractive your partner is, the less interest and admiration you should exhibit.
28. Use one particular perfume or deodorant such that, your partner would have the smell of you at the tip of her nose.
29. Do not use your partner’s phone without permission. It’s a personal cell phone not a
30. Always thinking or believing that your partner is cheating is such an unhealthy habit.
31. Once in a while, text ‘I Miss You’ or ‘I Love You’ to your boyfriend or girlfriend. This can save your relationship without putting in much work.
32. The more you try to impress a guy or a lady, the more you’re closer to losing them.
33. Sending your girlfriend or boyfriend flowers simply implies how much you value the relationship.
34. Partners living in different houses experience the best kind of relationship than most who live together.
35. When you’re about to have intimacy with your partner, for safety and security reasons, check your laptop’s camera and sound installed to see if they’re activated.
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DATE HACKS
1. If you can, arrange a date with a restaurant for reservations before the two of you even get there.
2. It is best to ask for a date with on phone than text.
3. When on a date with a woman, let her choose her favorite from the menu first before you do.
4. It is actually not a must to choose the same dish or beverage as your partner when on a date.
5. When at the dinner table with your boyfriend or girlfriend, it’s ok to talk too much but don’t bluff.
6. It is actually uncool to allow a lady to pay for foods, drinks etc ordered when having a date.
7. When you are on a date with a woman, it is actually romantic to carry the lady’s handbag/purse if she carries any.
8. As a woman, when going out with a man on a date, take some money or your credit card with you. Anything can happen under the sun. Lol.
9. When arranging a date with a stranger, it should be a place you’ve been there before or at an open area around your locality.
10. It is actually wrong to talk about family issues or any other related issues while on a date with your partner. This is a total turn off! Dates are supposed to start with fun and end with fun.
11. Most successful marriage proposals are said to have been from couple who went on a date.
12. Do not spend more than necessary.
13. If you are out on a date with someone, and you are asked to make an order, do not order the most expensive dish on the menu.
14. Talking about your relationship while at the table naturally strengthens the relationship automatically.
15. If you meet friends in a restaurant, a coffee shop or a snack bar while on a date, it is not advisable to approach or engage in a long conversation with them. Tell them to call or text you.
16. Never be gluttonous when at the table no matter how hungry or anxious you are.
17. Wear a suit or a tucked in attire and get served the best executive dish at the restaurant
18. When you are unsure about what to order, ask for recommendations from the waiter or waitress.
CALL/TEXT HACKS
1. Be a little funny over texts.
2. If you appear to not know the answer to a question, it is best to do nothing.
3. Always proofread or read over your texts before sending. Check the tonation of the message by reading them aloud.
4. No matter what the case is, do not share personal information, private part of your body over texts.
5. Never ask multiple questions in a single text
6. If you appear to love someone more than they love you, it is best to text, call or reach out to them less frequently.
7. When you call your partner for couple of times and the line is either busy, not reachable or not answering, don not make up a scene or fabricate thoughts in your mind. Don’t also be upset. You probably might not have an idea of what might be happening to that person or what day he or she might be having. His or her reasons might not even have any issues to do with you.
8. Don’t try to impress a girl over text, leave those vibes to when you meet her one-on-one.
9. Do not call too much if you realise your partner is having a bad day and they do not feel like talking. If they ask for a space to get over it alone, respect their choices.
10. When someone you want to have a relationship with keeps “blueticking” or goes blank on your texts, relax and keep spaces in between your texts.
11. Some people take funny texts the other way round, so be mindful with what you send someone.
12. Never argue with your partner over text. Whatever you say while texting is permanent and there is absolutely nothing you can do to change that.
13. Do not take conversation over texts seriously. Keep the conversation going and playful.
14. When a lady gives you her number, wait till after a maximum of a day or two to text or call her.
15. Keep your conversations with your man or woman simple, witty and engaging.
16. If you find yourself thinking about the ones you love or your boyfriend or girlfriend, the best thing to do is calling them and checking up on them. Emotions could be connected when two lovers come together. Not entirely but something might be wrong with them. It might be a sign.
17. To call or to text when you miss your boyfriend or girlfriend? It is better to call. On phone, you can easily tell if they are truly what they say they feel. Whether faking wellness or not.
18. Don’t send lengthy texts when having a conversation.
19. Lengthy romantic calls while your partner is at the office or at work is not the best. Reserve that for the night.
20. Reduce talking about secrets via phone call/texts.
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Poet Nazir is a writer and an editor here on ThePoetsHub. Outside this space, he works as a poet, screenwriter, author, relationship adviser and a reader. He is also the founder & lead director of PNSP Studios, a film production firm.
