Breakups can be very disheartening and sickening sometimes in our lives. Once in our lives, we do experience such things. We fall in love with someone that we tend to think nothing will ever break us and all of a sudden, the devil in us will arouse and bring an end to the relationship. Some relationships end with a reason, others with silence and some with no tangible reason.
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How Does Both Partner Feels; Good, Bad Or Ok?
Most relationships end not because of issue but because one party is fed up and just feel like moving people on with a different person. Sometimes, it feels so hard for partners to unite after a breakup. Those who do really love themselves to the peak, true love. Most people after breakups still feel the love igniting deep within them but will never approach because of pride and arrogance. Pride can make you feel too big to apologize to someone and this can make you lose him or her forever. That ‘sorry’ alone would have done the magic. You don’t need anyone to tell you if someone wants you back or not. You just need to be vigilant and observant. Knowing someone is still waiting for you after a breakup is mostly easy even if that fellow doesn’t admit to his or her feeling. Actions always speak louder than words.
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Signs Your Ex Is Waiting For You
When You Sense Aloneness Around Them
When we fall in love, we share almost everything together; our happiness, grievances, worries, luck, challenges and opportunities. In case there’s a sudden separation, we all tend to act as strangers to the ordinary world around us. We do not get the chance to talk freely, explore and get as happier as we were previously.
It is not news that most breakups were planned to be something temporary but both partners end up spending time without the other and this widens the gap. If you realise that after you’ve broken up with someone and they feel alone most of the time, know that, it’s a sign that they miss and still want to be with you. They might not admit to it but they do. People who’ve had true love experiences go through such traumas mostly. After a breakup, moving on should have been good news to your ex wouldn’t feel that if they want you back.
If you’ve been through this, don’t lose focus on the sign, gather the courage and put aside your pride and go get what’s rightfully yours.
When They Prefer To Stay Single
Memories keep holding us up. Mostly, the success of a relationship is dependent on memories and moments. Normally, it shouldn’t be difficult to find love after a breakup but when that seems to be a bad idea, then you are still in love with the other person. If your ex doesn’t want anything to do with you after you guys are done, it should rather be easier for her to move on. But when seems to be hanging around and appears to not need anyone, that’s a sign. If they want someone, they would have moved on long after the breakup but the memories are pulling him or her back. So that’s sign enough to take that bold step. True love always makes it feel like someone is irreplaceable, unique and incomparable. That’s how that person feels deep within. Since he or she thinks you’re irreplaceable, the door is open for reconciliation. Don’t hide behind pride or arrogance to wash this away.
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Attending To You Whenever You’re In Need
This is common to people with great and memorable pasts. There’s nothing that comes between them. No matter what the issue is, lovers who loved truly always find reasons to reconcile after they’ve been apart from each other. Unless they don’t hear you’re in a mess or need help; they will always be at your service. This should also be a sign for you to know that your ex-lover is right there waiting for you to come back. Don’t lose focus.
If they can’t call you because of shyness, they will try their possible best to text you. They will stay around until the issue is been resolved. Even while helping, they will claim they ain’t doing it for you. But the truth is, they really want you back but admitting to how they feel for you becomes hard; this is mostly to women. So if you realise something like that is going on, whether a man or woman, take that bold step; text or call your ex, he or she will surely attend to you faster than you thought.
They Keep Talking About The Matter With Your Friends
This is arguably one of the signs to tell you he or she wants to get you back into their arms. If someone wants to cut roads with you, they will never bother getting themselves into your matters or anything around you; whether in the present or the past. They will just go blank on you and that’s it. But if they keep interfering in issues concerning your past life, they are looking forward to you to make an approach and y’all will get back together.
By so doing, they will always raise issues about how you’ve treated them during your times; it will usually be the bad stuff. This is a way your exes use to communicate with you. They know that, your friends will always discuss it with you so the best way to get you talking or thinking is through your friends. Also, through your friends, your ex will know how far you’re doing in life; whether fine or worried.
When They Usually Visit Your Favorite Places
Memories are strong, remember. These memories were rooted somewhere. These places remind the person of how awesome and amazing the two of you are. Those places help them to have some flashbacks of your times as a couple. They reflect on it and begin to want you so badly but might not utter a word about how they feel.
When you’re fond of that place too and you always see him or her there without doing anything, then the truth is; seeing you seem to be what they aimed at. They just want to see you but won’t say anything about it. Be smart and take that bold step forward. Breakups are caused by actions that make us regret after. So don’t feel shy or sob over your past actions. That’s in the past; this is the present. You still have a chance to make things happen. Don’t let yourself lose whom you love because of pride, arrogance or shyness. You will regret it for a lifetime.
When They Take The Blame For The Breakup
No ex will admit to something he or she didn’t do if not for love and peace. And ex who doesn’t want to get back with you will never accept blames for causing the breakup even if they are to blame. So if your ex keeps accepting the blame for an occurrence, he or she is trying to tell you; he or she ain’t perfect and he or she is looking forward to changing to a better person. It doesn’t really matter if they are guilty or not. Peace and love are what has to lead the heart.
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When He/She Calls or Texts You Oftenly
Since love is one strong feeling that unites two different hearts, your ex will always feel connected to you. This is one of the signs your ex will show if they are still in love with you. Therefore, if your ex is fond of texting or calling you more than necessary, this should be a sign for you to know that, he or she still wants you back. This is because it is easier to type messages or reach to you via phone call than talk to you in person. However, if you’re still into that person, never let go. Take that bold step and get him or her back. Calling or texting you means, they just want to check up on you or hear your voice.
Bumping At Each Other Oftenly
If you happen to be meeting your partner most often and anywhere you go, know that he or she is trying to send a message to you. Pay close attention and read in between the lines. During the meeting, it is vital to pay attention to how he or she reacts. In most cases, they will try to hide it but their body language and eye movement will tell you how they feel and think.
If your ex happens to be meeting with you unexpectedly, it’s not unexpected. He or she is trying some ways to see if you’ll say hi or show a sign of distress. If you happen to be experiencing this, it doesn’t take a cedi to say hi. Just say hi and the love will rebirth. Let love lead.
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Tries To Know What’s Happening Around You
True love is rare, so if you meet one, hold it with care. After a breakup, everyone is supposed to move on with their lives and not be bothered about what happens around their ex but in this case, one person seems to not be able to do it. This simply implies that, yes there is a problem at hand but your safety and health is still their priority. This is a sign to tell you that, they still have feelings for you.
In most cases, they will try to know much about how you’re living your life; whether you’ve moved on or not or if you still have some feelings for them. Know that, they might not do this directly. You just need to watch closely and make things happen.
He/She Is Jealous
After separation, each of you is supposed to mind his or her business but this is not in your ex’s case. As much as they care so much about what happens around you, they will check whom you stroll around with. They begin to act like your parents; loving and hating people they don’t even know especially the same sex. If your ex happens to be watchful over you and getting jealous when anyone gets closer to you, know that, he or she still got love for you and would want to have you back but how to do it is the issue. Being jealous here also means, they have some group of friends they, in particular, want you to move with(even during the breakup) and those he or she doesn’t. This is all because of the love he or she has for you. Even if they fail to admit to having feelings for you, just make that bold approach and it will be worth it.
